Showing posts with label Our Life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Our Life. Show all posts

Vintage Finds..Our New Table


Last week had the pleasure of discovering new thrift stores and shopping in antique stores. To my happy surprise, my husband was more than helpful by watching our girls so that I could have this scavenging time with one of my best friends, Christina, who had come to visit from Texas.
We've been friends for 8 years, were college roommates for 2 of those years, and it was so nice to see her.

For the past 9 months or so, I have been falling out of love with my kitchen table. It was one of those tall, bistro style tables...and it was black.
My 3 year old couldn't get into the chairs by herself...our legs dangled when we sat in the chairs, and it just wasn't what I wanted.

I have had my eye on Cost Plus World Market's Sourav Table for quite some time. I'd complain sometimes to friends on FB about how much I wanted "my table" that was in the Cost Plus store.

We signed up for their customer rewards program, and were happily rewarded with 15% any purchase. I bit the bullet, sold my table, and with that coupon on top of it all, I had about 75% of my new table paid for.

Getting the table out of the store and into my car was a whole ordeal in and of itself. To make a long story short, we basically drove 2 hrs in the car with screaming babies, my friend got her toe smashed by one of the employees who pushed the table on top of her foot accidentally, and the table barely fit in the van once we did get it in there.

Needless to say, after all of that, I was so excited to dress it up a little like how I had pictured it in my mind. I can always count on Christina to tell me if it looks good, because she has fashion and decor sense Im not too savvy with.

Here are a few shots of what we crafted and found in thrift stores!



Chair makeover: $5.99 chair from the Goodwill in need of cushion TLC....recovered with fabric I already had!

The minute I saw this burlap brown fabric with silver-patterned flowers on it at Hobby Lobby, I knew I would want it for a table runner. I added a little gray ruffle and some cream lace to the ends.




I found this adorable chrome napkin holder for just 50 cents at Goodwill


My place settings are a mix of thrift store finds, and  things I already had.
Silver charger-Hobby Lobby
Cream Plate- already had (came from Target)
White small plate- thrift store find for 50 cents
Crystal Bowl- thrift store find for $1
Wooden napkin rings-  thrift store find (were brown, I painted cream) got 6 for $1
Vintage napkins- antique store love, so I splurged and paid $14 for 6 napkins

 My new favorite candle...from Hobby Lobby....sell for $9.99, but I had a 40% off coupon ;)

 AND LOOK! Noel sits at it all by herself, and loves to do her coloring there already!
Do you like my Italy/France photography?


Thank you for taking a peek into our dining room table's new space.



A Little Life Update

You wouldn't know it from this post...but I am trying to get away from talking so much, and showing more pictures in posts...lol....maybe starting tomorrow?? ;)
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If you would have told me 7 months ago we'd be out of the Marine Corps AND still living in Arizona, I would have told you that you were nuts.

It was Christmas Eve and we were packing for our plane trip to California on Christmas Day. I didn't want to cook and mess up the kitchen, so we got take-out Chinese food, which is a Christmas Eve tradition in my husband's family, anyway.

My fortune cookie gave me this little note...



I'm not one to believe in these things, but I thought it was nice, so I put it on my fridge.

We came back a week later with the new feeling we needed to get out. We realized we were at the end of our road with the Corps, and we were trusting God to show us the rest of the road.

We had just been told the renters were moving out of our house in N. Carolina, and knowing the economy there, our house would be a trial to sell or re-rent.

It has been.

Even now, almost 8 months gone...it is still sitting empty.
If you've read my past posts, you know that this challenge with our short sale and leaving the Marine Corps has been a pretty stressful one. Being 18 when he enlisted, my husband had just learned to drive, never had a real job, never had to interview for anything, and had no vision for what he wanted to do in his future. He joined the Marine Corps because God told him to.

The night before he went off to boot camp, we hung out for only the second time. We left and I said "Ill write to you". Letters and hours of phone calls...4 years of "dating" long distance... and then 5 years of marriage and 2 girls later, we continue to just trust in God.

I couldn't have orchestrated it any better. Well, of course I wouldn't plan to be going through a short-sale or other financial stresses that have come and gone, but I know that its all part of our story. It was written before time.

Before Levi even finished his last month with the Marine Corps, he had been asked to interview for Intel. We would have to fork over money for a plane ticket to N Carolina, and some travel expenses for him to just go attempt an interview. It was going to be a costly "maybe" kind of thing, but we did it anyway.

Within a day he had the ticket, the new suit, and his bag packed.
He came home feeling unsure, but when the job offer came over email the following week, we knew what we were supposed to do. How awesome would it be for God to supply a great job with half of the hours he had been working as a recruiter, same money, just 20 minutes from where we already lived.
That's what He did.

Our hopes to move near family in Northern California were dashed, and we were sad. We accepted the job anyway, since we knew we couldn't gamble a living in California with no job.

After his last day of recruiting, he had 2 weeks of "decompression time" before starting his Intel job.

I knew he would have some mental breakthroughs during that time, but I didn't realize how much of a "mini- mid-life crisis" we would experience. Recruiting is more than a job....heck, being a Marine is more than just a job. Deployment and the stress of recruiting had gotten to him more than we had had time to realize.

 Many times he'd just sit and have "light-bulb moments"... things like making plans for his future were new to him. Before the Corps would tell him what he was going to do and when.

He left for work on his first day at Intel...I said a prayer and hoped it would be a good one. I kind of felt like a mommy letting her kid go off to kindergarten, hoping the other kids would be nice and not do anything detrimental to him.

I was relieved and ecstatic to see his smile and hear his positive words about his first day. I knew it was going to be a good change for him and for us. He says people want to talk to him, and eat lunch with him.

Daily, he has something new to tell me about Intel.
He starts with "Did you know...." and I just have to let him tell me, even though its obvious I don't speak "tech-geek" language at all.
He's excited to be talking to engineers about tech-stuff, and having a video game break room with all you use PlayStation's, x-boxes, and endless Starbucks coffee and fruit.

He's now in his second week and on his way to finishing some training.

In the Marine Corps, they take classes about weapons safety, and tactics
At Intel, Levi has to attend classes about how not to get "keyboard wrist" or "gaming-related injuries"

LOL!

You should've heard the shock and seen his face when he got the text from a new co-worker asking to hang out. He looked like a deer in the headlights..not knowing how to respond.

Its fun to see Levi gaining new confidences in an area of his life, and making friends. I can't count the number of times he's said "I can't believe people actually want to hang out with me"

We've got a lot of hope and our future riding on God's plans, and I am just so thankful we don't have to figure all of this crazy life out.

We couldn't be more blessed, with happy-healthy daughters, and a job.

Please continue to pray for us, our short-sale, my small-business/hobby and our beauties.
If you have a prayer-request, please let me know too!
Happy Tuesday!

A Baker's Dozen...Get to know me!

Who doesn't like the idea of a baker's dozen? Add one more to a bunch, and thats usually not a bad thing, unless we are talking about inches on my waist...;)

So here's a random baker's dozen of facts about me...you may find that we have things in common, or that I am just weird! HAHA!

 I am half Italian (my dad is 100%) By looking at me you may not know, since I am blonde, blue eyes and about 5'10" tall. My maiden name is "Gallucci" (Guh-loo-chee)... you name it, Ive heard it, when it comes to the pronounciation. I am the only one out of ALL of my relatives with blonde hair, and the only Italian thing on me is my big nose and food-loving taste buds ;)

Speaking of Italian, I grew up eating great Italian food, love mob hits from Dean Martin and Loui Prima...and my grandpa taught me an entire Italian song all of us cousins know, but we have no idea what it means in English. I studied Italian in college, but my professor was a strega! (witch in Italian)


I used to work at the Houston Zoo where I got to go behind the scenes and work with Lions, Okapi and other awesome animals...and I taught summer camp to 4 yr olds!

I graduated from Texas A&M University with a BS in Animal Science...my dream was to go to vet school, but my incompetence with chemistry made it impossible. I made life long friends there, though...and it happened to also be the college where my parents had met 20 years before.  I have a ton of stories about my time there...I got to participate in reproductive surgeries on pigs, feed horses, and do things that require gloves up to your shoulder...Gig'em Aggies!

I have lived in 6 states...the most amazing one was Alaska, but unfortunately I lived there when I was in middle school and didn't appreciate it like I should have. Really, who else gets to walk in rivers where salmon hit your legs, have berries grow in your backyard, and moose walk by your bedroom window!?


 I am left handed!


My favorite stores are Cost Plus World Market, IKEA, Target and Hobby Lobby...its just to bad many of their things are not made in the USA :(


The day my husband came home and told me he was being deployed, we also found out I was pregnant with our first daughter. He left 2 days after we found out she was a girl.
We decided on her name over dinner at a Mexican restaurant, and I had her 4 months later. Having a baby without a husband there, or an epidural are 2 things I vowed to NEVER do again...lol



My favorite colors are teal and yellow!




One of my biggest pet peeves are people who smack or lick their lips/make gross sounds with their mouths...this includes dogs.  eeeewww



I've eaten cannolis in Italy, crepes & ratatouille in France... and had Sangria as I watched flamenco dancing in Spain. Wish I could do it all again!


My babies come out with toddler-sized feet...lol...I wish they were able to wear those adorable newborn shoes and socks, but with a mom with size 10 feet, and a dada with 16's, its a no brainer they are doomed...lol

 I have a dream to write a children's book and take calligraphy lessons one day!



Tell me something about YOU!! ;)




A Random-filled Tuesday


Oh how I wish I had something super wise and funny to share with you today...unfortunately, all I have is this short few minutes I could steal away...having 2 mobile kids has changed my life!! I am lucky if I get to blow my nose with both hands for a quick second...

Our lives are in a big transition, as you may know....

You see, this is a monumental week for us. For the first time in 9 years, I know my husband as a civilian.
How weird is this?? {I think to myself}
Its only been a week and a half since his haircut, and already he's feeling his head saying "I can't believe how much hair I have!" LOL...It is a little long, but Im letting him decide when he wants to get his next haircut. Secretly, I am hoping he doesn't go more than 2 weeks since I love his hair short.

Already, he's answered his phone a time or two with  "Sgt. Stu-----.....umm.,..this is Levi"....its going to be an adjustment for all of us.

He's finding freedom in the little things, like deciding if he wants to shave in the morning or put on a belt. These were things that have become so routine.

How many prospects does he have for next month?? This infamous question no longer applies...and it makes both of us a little relieved.

This past week I have been a little under the weather...remember me mentioning that gray cloud of doom over my head? Well, it rears its ugly head in my life daily when I get ugly letters from the bank in the mail reminding me that this and that are missing, and our short sale process is in litigation. All of these mailers are routine, and we are doing everything we can, but getting this useless & negative mail everyday (almost) is not helping. You'd think banks would be interested in saving money, but the cost of a stamp is nothing to them, I guess.

It's even sort of put a damper on my craftiness...haven't made anything these last few days, which is abnormal for me.

I am remembering that God has this situation in His hand, just like he does everything else.
He thinks about my life's situation and me more than I know...the Bible says in Psalms


17 How amazing are your thoughts concerning me, God!
How vast is the sum of them!
18 Were I to count them,
they would outnumber the grains of sand—
when I awake, I am still with you.


If you've ever visited the beach with your kids, and had the pleasure of cleaning up sand off of your floor, you know sand is minuscule and scatters everywhere. God thinks of us more than each of those pesky granules.


Well, I know its Tuesday, so keep on doing what your doing. Think of ways to serve someone in your life somehow...it will make you feel good.

I have a basket of groceries Ive been wanting to donate..thinking of putting it in my car to give to someone I find in need...but then again, groceries in a hot car probably wouldn't be good.

As I sit in my air conditioned house when its 100+ degrees outside, and get the joy of playing with my healthy children, I can't help but be thankful.
Have a great 6-19-12!


Life Updates..and Photography Volunteer!

If you've been a reader for a little while, or from the beginning just a few months ago, you may or may not know a little about me.
Ive managed to already write 80+ posts, and about 10 of them tell a little about my life and what I intend for this blog. (If you'd like, you can go to the labels on the right side and click to see past topics and posts.)

 One of the most frustrating things about starting out blogging, is working hard on a post, and then knowing "6 views" will be reported....again. I may grab a few of my favs from the past, and repost them, just so they don't go too unnoticed..lol

It'd be easy to join a bunch of "linky parties", do a bunch of giveaways, and pay to advertise.
But thats not me, nor what I want for my blog.

Did you know you can get your blog printed into a book?
I want to be able to say that if I go my blog printed into a book, that my book would not be full of artificial posts and ideas from other people. I try to portray family, creating, the love we have, the fun we have, and would love to form life-changing relationships with other bloggers.

Just pray for us...for me...during this trial with the real-estate market. Trying to short-sale a house in another state just isn't easy. It's like I have this gray cloud floating over my head most of the time, inside swirling dollar sings are just waiting to fall on me.

I told myself the other day that God is bigger than the real estate market, and He is.
I just need to really believe it.

My husband's last official day in the recruiting office is tomorrow, and I am on the fence about whether I am excited or not. Having him home more is going to be an adjustment, just because recruiting is so many hours, and his new job is much less. He will have DAYS off, and that is just unheard of as a Marine Corps recruiter.
We actually have a month to do nothing since his new job doesn't start until July.
Of course, in my mind I have trips and DIY projects planned...we will make the most of the budget we have.

Ive been wanting to "up" my photography practice, so tried to come up with a way I could use my time for something good and gain practice.

I know pictures are priceless, and sometimes a picture can make all the difference on whether a product is bought/sold, someone is hired or not........they can also mean life or death for a homeless animal.

Having a nice picture could help show potential owners a nicer impression of the animal, increasing it's chances for adoption.....not to mention, I'd get photography practice.
Too often, dogs are stuck with pictures like this:
Thankfully the animal shelter in town is already in the works of realizing this same idea, and there's a volunteer photographer orientation next month!! I'm pretty excited.

Last year, my dogs got out and ran away. I had to tour this shelter, and is was so bad, I left crying.
If one of my pictures helps save one animal, I have done a lot.
Thanks to those who keep up with me/my blog. I know I can be random and wordy :)

Peaches... Part 1

Are you getting ready for Memorial Day weekend?
We can't wait for the long weekend to spend together.

Luckily, my mom is visiting this week from Texas.
If you have read previous posts of mine, you may know my mom is pretty amazing in the kitchen.
My husband has a list of requested things ready for her to make for him including her chicken enchiladas, Boston cream pie, and peach cobbler. Normally, we try to eat healthier than that, but her visits are a rare occasion :)

I've had major plans lately to visit an organic  u-pick farm nearby called Schnepf Farms. Yesterday we made the trip, and it made me appreciate the life of a farmer even more. Picking fruit isn't that hard, but getting the fruit to grow is a  Science, not to mention the processing required to use the food you grow in recipes, etc.

 I wasn't sure what to expect, but I had heard great things, and was super excited to go picking with my daughters & mom. I hoped to make cobbler and jam with the peaches we picked together.

We live about 30 minutes from the farm, so driving there wasn't too bad. They open early in the morning (7:30 am) and considering it gets pretty hot quickly in the day, I had wanted to get there sooner rather than later.

Schnepf farms turned out to be a fun trip! They give you sturdy cardboard boxes to load up with any peaches you want. I brought my girls in their wagon...it helped to have a place for my 8 mos. old to sit while we picked. The ground was of course rocky/bumpy, so we weren't able to go really deep into the orchards where the huge peaches are, but we got some good ones!



Noel (my 3 year old) was so excited to go here...her first words in the morning when she woke up were "Are we going to get peaches off the trees??!!".....she put her hands to her cheeks imitating them going into her mouth.

The only issue I was frustrated with is that picking peaches is a little addicting, and before we knew it, we had filled 2 boxes. Since they make you pay for what you pick, we spent WAY more than I had intended. Lets just say we picked over 30 lbs in about 20-30 minutes.

 It was a fun/rare experience and worth every penny for family time.

These peaches taste amazing, and in part 2 (I will post next week), I will share what we made:

1) 2 types of jam (one all natural with no pectin/ extra sugar, and the other with sugar and pectin for comparison)

2) Peach Cobbler which I also made in mini sizes, using some adorable ramekins I just got at Home Goods.
I love them!






Here's a sneak peek :)

Thanks for reading about out peach picking adventure, and enjoy your friends/family this weekend.

Remember some heroes too.




Blast From the Past

You know those time capsules students sometimes bury at their school when they are little, only to go back years later and dig it up to see what life was like at a certain time?

Well, my "filing system" has sort of become one of those for me.
I have quite a bit of frustration going on with a few circumstances we've been facing regarding houses and jobs, so I needed something to attack. Organizing is always something that makes me feel better.

Files...here I come.......
Don't let this be you:

Yes, I am embarrassed to say that this is how my filing has become in the past year or two. With our move coming up, I have been overhauling any clutter we have. It has to be gone.
Not to mention, I really do love being organized...its just so easy for a corner of our closet to be hidden this way.

In the wake of putting our house up for sale, there were documents we needed to have for the process. Where were those papers? I knew I had them, cause I save EVERYTHING!

Want to know what other blasts from the past I found??

Ticket stubs from my first movie date with my now-husband...the fact that he went to go see Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants with me back in 2005 proves that a guy will do almost anything to be with a girl. I have more stories, but I wont embarrass him anymore...lol

I found a print out of a personality test I got to take in college that helps you know what careers you would be good at. Granted, this is a test most people pay for, I got to take it for free. Good thing, because it was total junk and got me all wrong....lol



I also found a 2007 planner I wrote EVERYTHING down in.
2007 was a monumental year, and it started off great too... I was getting to go to California and see my not-yet husband and friends....can you tell I was excited?? Our entire dating relationship was 3 years of getting to see each other for a week or two each year...it was so hard. We had planned a new years trip to Reno and he proposed in the snow on the ride home.

On a more serious note, this planner reminded me of a lot. I decided to look back onto this day on 2007...April 4th...I wondered what I had done that day. Well, it was a busy day of work and I was in the midst of wedding planning. I had a list of prayer requests...one mentioning a friend who was struggling with infertility. 5 years really does go by quickly, and its amazing to see how God has worked. I'm about to celebrate 5 years of marriage...and my friend now has 2 miracle babies.
God is good.

Tomorrow, I will be posting some filing system tips and tricks. Nowadays filing doesn't have to be folders and filing cabinets....I'll show you other ideas too :)




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Our life is crazy, but good...

2012 is the year for change---- and I dont mean the kind of "Hope and Change" we've been dealing with the past couple of years, but I mean REAL change for our Studer family.
The year kicked off with the biggest decision we could have made- to leave the Marine Corps after 9 years of service.  There are many reasons why we have decided this..and even now sometimes, we ask ourselves if we are making the right decision?? The military is beneficial in so many ways...

Its scary.
Ive really only known my husband as a Marine, since we struck up our friendship officially the night before he left for bootcamp. Its a long, intricate story, but really the Marine Corps is all we have known together..... and without it, I am a little timid about what we will be. I know it doesn't define who we are or how much we love eachother, but it has become a lifestyle and an identity for Levi. He was just 18 when he signed his life away for at least a little while. He's been shipped all around the world and given a job title at such a young age and being told what to do and how to do it for so long.

Like many other military families, events the Marine Corps brought us to have forever shaped our lives. Who wouldve thought I would have to have my first baby without him by my side. I remember hearing stories of that happening {before it happened to me}, and I would sit with my mouth wide open and say "oh, I could NEVER go through that."

Well...I must have jinxed myself because the exact day we got notice he was deploying, I found out we were expecting....he left 2 days after we found out we were having a girl.We decided her name over dinner at a mexican restaurant the day before he left......he got to hear his first daughter cry through the phone my mom left on for his sake{without my knowledge}- wasn't too happy about that one.

Fast forward a couple of years, and now we are a recruiting family in Arizona. No one seems to understand that Marines are everywhere. Even without a base, there are military families scattered throughout the United States, and yes, they are still Marines- just a tough as any other. The families often endure just as many hardships {and different ones} than those who are around a base.
I could make a list, but wont.

 If you know a Marine, you know they are some of the hardest working men and women out there.

So, what is next? How will my Marine-man go through this new stage without "Sgt." before his name.??

 I have a feeling he's going to be answering his phone with: "Sgt. Studer, how may I help you sir, or ma'am?" for quite a while.

As of right now, we are in the middle of a lot of pending things.
1)We are finalizing his resume
2) Searching for potential jobs
2) Trying to sell a house we had to leave behind 2 years ago in North Carolina that is sucking our bank account dry
3) Chasing down a hard-to-find insurance adjuster who owes us money from hurricane Irene's damage 7 months ago
...stick a demanding recruiting job, and 2 daughters on top of all of that- we have a lot on our plates.

Luckily, we have God who can carry a lot of plates...I kind of picture one of those amazing waiters/waitresses who has plates up and down their arms...heck, He can even carry them on his head if he had to.

For now, I just take one day at a time......and today happens to be my littlest beauty's Happy Half Birthday! How could half of a year fly by so quickly?
Today we celebrated with a trip to the children's museum where we had TONS of fun.
I am choosing to look past the crying the whole way there, the knick in my windshield I got ON the way there, and the full parking lot once we got there.
I have 2 amazing daughters.
If I could have just one thing in this world, it would be this.






I'd love to hear comments, if someone happens to ever read my blog. Feel free to share with a friend.  In the midst of all of this change, I left my thriving crafty page to start what seems to be me just talking to the cyberspace... and that is ok too. ;)

Speaking with Love , Not Anger

Yesterday was one of those days. With my 5 month old (Hope) and 2 year old(Noel) having bronchitis, it seemed every waking moment available for whining, my 2 year old took advantage. I can't tell you how many times she defied me or cried for no reason. I wanted to fly of the handle so many times, but her sad, half-moon eyes reminded me she wasn't feeling well, and that her "naughtiness" was really because of that.
It's hard when your kids are sick. For me, it seems like nothing is enjoyable until I know they are not hurting. I noticed this week, while dealing with these illnesses, that my daughter likes to be "babied".
She's like her da-da. You know, the kind of people that want you to wrap them up with a blanket, pillow, put their favorite movie on TV and be at their beckoned call.

For the past few months, as Noel has started really talking in more sentences, it has become apparent to me that how I act or what I say will influence the way she responds.
 This is so true with most adults too.
I say it all of the time to my husband who is a Marine Corps Recruiter. Occasionally, I hear him talk to students and potential recruits about their futures, and it is full of insecurity-inducing interrogation. No one likes to be made to feel unsure, invaluable or incapable.

I think people respond much better to positive and uplifting words that portray to those listening that there is better ahead. Sending the message that-You can do it!

When asking Noel to pick up her toys or books, instead of getting frustrated that she isn't doing it fast enough or the "right way", I simply must start with the "good jobs" before she even picks up the first one. I quickly see that she is inspired to take the first step...first one book, then the next.

If she is my good helper one minute, I am sure to hug and praise her like crazy in hopes she will want to do it again.

This fundamental idea can be used on animal training, teaching in schools and so many other areas.
I intended on keeping it at the forefront of my mouth when I am speaking to my kids and/or my husband.
After all, I know he is more likely to fold the towels for me if I praise and make a big deal that he helps me, when he does the first time ;)

"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." (Proverbs 15:1 NIV).



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More than lucky...

My husband is always quick to remind me how we are "blessed" and not lucky.

I think lucky is one of those words I easily throw out there when I see a situation favoring someone for some time. However, if you think about it, there are always little blessings showered on all of us every hour of the day.

I don't know about you, but opening my eyes every morning can be counted as my first blessing of everyday, and blessing #2 could be that I can get out of bed.
The most important blessings in my life day to day are the 2 beauties I get to wake up to every morning...and yes, my wonderful husband is a blessing too.
The truth is, I could go on and on...and I thank the Lord that I can.

Feel free to use this picture for any projects you want:)